[Oprah.com] In a Digital World, Do Your Manners Need a Makeover?

Henry Alford, author of Would It Kill You to Stop Doing That? A Modern Guide to Manners, offers his tips for restoring civility in the age of constant connectivity.
By Henry Alford

1. Don’t answer a telephone call with an e-mail.Or an e-mail with a text message. Or a text with a Facebook message. In the communication hierarchy, you generally want to match the level of intimacy or move up the hierarchy—a move down can look like you’re avoiding the person.

2. Do ask before you post pictures from a party……whether anyone minds having them on Facebook. If someone is social-media-shy, save any photos of her for your non-Facebook albums.

3. Don’t text at the movie theater……no matter how strong the urge to LOL. If you’re perpetually rattled by the glowing phone screens of others texting during movies, do bring a tiny penlight to shine on them. It’s more discreet than shushing but still delivers a wallop of social shame.

Read more: http://www.oprah.com/relationships/Email-Etiquette-Cell-Phone-Etiquette#ixzz26IsgWvt7

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